There’s a lot of confusing information out there when it comes to weight loss. 
My goal for with this article is to simplify dieting, whether you are motivated by aesthetic or health reasons.

This is of course not a medical advice - just sharing what has worked for me. Before you start any new exercise or diet program, I recommend that you seek medical advice from your personal physician.

First lets go over how all diets work: whether you swear by intermittent fasting, weight watchers, Keto, low carb, the whole 30 or whatever new diet is trending right now, know, that every diet works the same way. They put you in a caloric deficit by either limiting the your window available to eat, this is how intermittent fasting works, or restricting your food choices, this is how Atkins, Keto, Paleo works, or restricting the amount you can eat through the day, this is how meal plans and Weight Watchers work. 

There are no “magic” diets. They all “work” if you eat less than what you burn.

A lot of people have this problem when they’re starting out - they start eating healthy, eating clean, however they never lose any weight. 
Nutrient content matters, and there are studies out there that show people who eat highly processed foods eat more in general than people eating unprocessed foods, but if you are still overeating you will not lose weight.

You still must be aware of energy values as some foods can be calorie dense.
For example a banana is quite high in carbs, and nuts are super high in fat. They're both clean, healthy and unprocessed, however if you tend to overeat them you will not lose weight. 
In my opinion food shouldn’t be categorized as good or bad. Every food is good and you should eat everything, except of course if
you have an allergy or an intolerance. 

Your calorie intake will determine whether you’re gaining, maintaining, or losing weight. Macros determine your body composition and they need to be adjusted according to your lifestyle and sports you are playing. 

What are macronutrients? They’re the three categories of nutrients: proteins, carbs or fat that you’re consuming. Every food we eat is made up of some ratio of protein, carbs and fats. 

1 gr protein is 4 kcal 
1 gr fat is 9 kcal 
1gr carbs is 4 kcal 
1gr alcohol is 7 kcal 

So what is the simplest way to lose weight? 
The least restrictive and most accurate way to lose weight in my opinion and keep the weight off is to actually track how much you are eating, how many calories you are taking in in a day. 

Counting your macros or calories will: 
#1 within reason allow you to eat whatever and whenever 
you want thought the day, because remember, the timing and the frequency of your meals doesn’t matter as long as you are not overeating for the day. 
#2 you can eat ur favorite foods, you don't need to limit yourself to the traditional diet stuff if you don't want to.
#3 it helps to improve your understanding of nutrition, identify places you could optimize your diet.  
#4 brings awareness to portion sizes and teaches you to eat for your goals, especially if you are an athlete. 

This is a large topic on its own, but just in general for losing weight or if you are someone suffering from binging / overeating or if you go to the gym and lift weights I recommend consuming a diet higher in protein and if you 
are someone that enjoys cardio you will benefit from eating more carbs. 

This is the most important part: when you first start out I suggest eating solid meals around your maintenance calories for 2-3 weeks. This will help you normalize your eating, help you learn portion control and your body will also get used to eating less. 

And actually a lot of people will lose weight just eating their maintenance, because they’ve been eating a lot more before. Then starting week 3 - 4, i suggest taking off 50-100-150 calories max from your maintenance calories. 

I think the biggest mistake people make is that they start out with a large deficit that they are not able to maintain. It happens very frequently that we calculate someone’s maintenance calories and let’s say it is 2200. And they come back a week later saying proudly "oh I’m only eating 1200 a day", then week 3 they give up because its too hard. 

It’s actually not hard, but you have to think conservatively, in terms of months or even a year, not days and weeks. Crash diets don't work. 

Think this is a marathon, or ironman, not a casual 5K in the neighborhood. 

How to tackle binge eating? Binging almost always comes from some sort of restriction. Its either that you are not eating enough or you follow a diet that’s too restrictive (FE you stopped eating your favorite foods, and switched to diet stuff that you actually don't like. Or you go too long btw meals, or you are not eating after 6pm but go sleep super late etc.) 
As for triggers, it can be your mentality, emotions, stress, anxiety, or a lot of people eat mindlessly bc they’re bored.

In order to overcome binging and overeating I suggest that, first try to track your diet for a couple weeks and see if you can recognize a pattern. Also try to find the cause and find your triggers, and see what you can improve. 

However, if your triggers are mood swings, anxiety, depression I suggest seeking professional help either from a Chinese Medicine practitioner that can help balance your body and emotions, or you can also take the conventional route and seek help from a registered dietitian or mental health professional specializing in binging / eating disorders. Just know that help is available and don't be afraid to reach out. 

Cheat days? Same goes with “cheat days / cheat meals” instead of having a full cheat day, and then feel guilty about it, I suggest that you include whatever you crave within your daily calories and move some macros around to make it fit. For example you crave a bag of Skittles, have your Skittles and trade carbs for carbs, protein for protein, fat for fat. So eat less bread or potatoes or whatever your carb sources are. 

How important is exercise for weight loss? I had this conversation with a patient, he recently increased his cardio in order to get in shape. If you enjoy cardio - by all means go for it - but don't think it’s necessary. 
You must understand that if you want to lose weight or lose fat then diet is how you primarily do it. 

You can run a marathon every day, but if you are eating more than that you are not going to lose weight, you will just be exhausted. 

Also - Cardio is great for heart health and it’s so relaxing to spend time outside, however cardio actually doesn’t build, shape or tone the body.

In general:
caloric deficit + weights = lean, toned, shapely body
caloric deficit + cardio = skinny body
caloric deficit + weights + cardio = shredded body

I don't have time for this... 
I get this a lot too. No real advice just tough love here: but we all have time - If you can’t find time, then that’s a failure in your time management skills, and you need to reconsider your priorities.

And of course your health should always be a top priory.  

Just to put things into perspective, this whole tracking thing doesn’t take  more than 15min a day. And keep in mind, you do not necessarily need to get too crazy with tracking your diet. The most important is that you normalize your eating, stop obsessing around food, have a general awareness of your food intake and learn proper portion sizes and you can take a break. If things get out of control, when you notice that your belly rolls are filling back in, you simply return to it and start tracking again. 

Remember: discipline, not deprivation is the secret to keeping the weight off. 

​So get your nutrition down, create your deficit, be consistent and in time you will get your result.